read a few article~ suddenly feel that women always accused for being complicated~ Actually we ARE NOT complicated~ we are just too kind, too generous and too loving till the point~ we look like we are complicated
lets explore~~
during childhood, we always play around and do or say whatever we like, then parents come in say we must share and consider people feeling... ok lo~ so we start to spread our love to ourselves, families and friends...
when enter school, teachers come in... we must concentrate on study and think for future... ok lo~ we start study hard, plan well... then teacher add on... we must be friendly... OK~!! now we spread our time again spend with friends... then parents agian add on... we are lazy, not being helpful at home~ FINE~! add in house chore~
when we become teenagers, people around start to gossip that we dont know how to take care of our own, don dress properly, dont act like ladies... etc~ ok.. so we need learn and spend some time and money on ourselves again in order to be accepted by people around us...
when we start to work~ if we are pretty, lady colleague wont be happy, they will say have look no brain, if we are smart, male colleague wont be happy, they will say - so smart for what end up also become housewife... so since we were taught to be friendly etc... fine.... we become pretty infront guy, and smart with smart people (happy?) ...
then when we have boyfriend... things change again... he want you spend time with him, his family... in same time, as woman, we never will leave our own family~ ok lo~ this the climax part (so i write specifically in one column)
start - we spend time with BF, we spend time with own friends, we spend time with own family, we spend time with his family.... then we still need spend time with work~ colleagues...
more challenging~ we clean our own dish, cloths and do own work... then clean and do own house chore (impossible we want our old parents do all those again right?)... then we help his family clean his house... as we love him... we also will help him do ironing and arrange his closet~ then if he tired, we will cook and help him massage...
some gentlemen will be understanding and help share the house chore and appreciate their women~ and this i call as MAN~!!!
another type?? the BF end up break up.. why??? ops~! we forgot ourselves~ after spend all those times on others... we neglect ourselves~! worst part is the reason of breakup = because you no longer pretty and your shape off d??? and he forgot that we actually have no time and energy for ourselves because we spend too much times on others~!
oh well~ i salute women~ specially pretty and capable mothers~! ^^ oh well~ maybe all the women past life is Octopus~! that;s why we can multitask~ muahahahaha
