Concern VS busybody

most of the time, we tend to give people privacy and sometimes we instead cross their privacy line... recently i notice, im actually not a very nice friend... i dont really bother what they do and what is their current situation unless they keep telling the world through facebook... in apposite way, sometimes i cross my line in caring and update my self towards "certain" person latest update~ perhaps this is the choice we made... we can choose not to bother... or we can choose to cant not bother

i seriously don like ask around people stuff... i believe everything they do must have their own reaon (whether i can accept or not another story la)... i used to apply same thing to someone... i remember that someone complain im not concerning enough... then i change and be more concern... up to date in everything that person do... then end up that person complain i make that person cant breath... sigh~ so i think im just not the type of person know what is so called "border" lines... hahaha

when we care about someone... even other person tell us its not worth or we shouldnt do so to avoid getting hurt... we will still do it... why? in philosophically, we call this "they are part of our life" in human words - WE ARE STUPID~!!!!

hahaha... ok.. so i think i shall try control myself of over caring as well over not bother~ hahaha... ouch~ life