East meet West

wonder if i ever post about this... if yes mean im old d~ if not then i post it now haha..

few days ago chat with my friend, discuss about educating kids...oh ya, she is a school teacher..

I refuse to teach for a reason - i have no patient and im short temper..

ya, when student respect us, and obedient, we are proud... meaning to say we have some position in their heart... but way that i teach are typical Asian style - scold, punish and sometimes cane... frankly speaking, i feel guilty whenever i do so, 1st~! they are not my children... i actually have no right do so... 2nd~! for me it will actually give negative impact to the students... and not least... this practice will be continuously repeated from one generations to another...

whenever i read or see the western parents teach their kids, im IMPRESSED~! they never shout, or cane... they always keep calm (even when the kids turn into monster roaring ) and wait till their kids to calm down, and able to listen to them... what i notice is most of them will act explain, then discuss the matter... even the kids only 5 years old... sometimes, they even negotiate with their kids so that they will behave well in future...

there are once, a friend of mine, whose sister married to Canadian... so she bring her kids to visit their aunty there.. my friend told me, their house was so silent.. the kids are not like ours.. jump up and down and running all around... they actually sit down reading... even when play they play their toys gently... so when her kids so that, automatically they behave well as well.. for once, my friend said that she can actually feel 'peaceful' time with their family~and they can really communicate well with each other even the kids do wrong...

a saying 'why we shout? because there is distance'... shall we shout our kids? hmm... something to ponder~ ^^

Korea

Return Kuching for about a month d~ now only then i post something bout my trip~ haha...

summary : i went to 3 places - Jeju island - Busan - Seoul

super enjoyable trip~ specially the nature scenery in Jeju Island and Busan~ and not least all those smart looking guys on the road~ muahahahaha (wiping saliva)

frankly speaking, if u were to ask me, below are my summaries...

i will say their skin actually just the same like ours... DRAMA LIES~!!!! the only thing make them look good is they always touch up their make up~! even guys~!!! an example is when we enter train to go busan, we- the malaysian, we take out our food and cameras... whereas for the Korean.. they will take our their face powder to touch up~ hahaha... but perhaps that's their practices...
 
as for the food... it is SUPERB~!!! that's also the reason why i gain weight when i return~ hehehehe...  when we enter any coffee shop, first thing they serve will be water~! haha... FOC sommore.. unlike malaysia, plain water also can cost RM0.50~! hmph~ but sad to say, i cant get normal coffee in their shop as well... sigh~ bit costly for the food, minimum 6000 won (RM18)... but for me it worth the price... come on.. one main dish with at least 3 sides dishes.. and the side dishes can refill one somemore.. hahaha

Scenery is something i enjoy most~! seriously~!!!! no pollution k~! even my nose Sxxx also not black... hahaha... but the sun is so strong yet the wind is super cold.. hahaha... end up.. i get sunburn~ sigh ...maybe is the season then i went to... instead getting fairer.. i end up get sun burn~ haha~ so dont expect be fair from Korea.. ^^

shopping~ oh yeah~ definitely is the cosmetics products.. super cheap.. hahahhaa.. actually is not which brand better... for me, it is which shop give more sample~ muahaha... some can actually give sample as if it was charity days... yet~ when i reach kuching.. after give a b c d... i only have 3 pieces for myself~ sad~ dint buy anything else... and the luggage already reach 40KG hahahah...

accommodation - im lucky enough to have a friend who can read and speak well korean (eventhough she learn it from drama, oh well~ she is smart)..so we able to enjoy great place to stay... and great place to visit... and etc...

so overall~ I MISS KOREA~ hahahaha... definitely will go again one day (after i settle my bill :( )
the overall expenses - RM10k (include meal, place to stay, air ticket)